Long overdue. The Friends Only Post.

[tigtogiba34]

My LJ can vote and buy lotto tickets now!
Having just turned eighteen on November 17th... and never renamed.
If you aren't sure if you know of me or not, name's Melissa, I'm from NY, I went to college near Canada, my sports teams are the Braves, NY Giants and Canadiens. I watch Professional Wrestling, and both Olympics. My main hobby right now is reading. I am trying to finish up re-writing my memoir of the car accident I was not responsible for that almost took my life and led to me rehabbing for almost 5 years now. And my username is from when I was 13 and took pieces of the Pets I had at the time that are all gone now and took a piece of my heart with them, plus the 34 which I have an OCD obsession with.

Striking out for- Sorry Tig we're not in Kansas (LJ) anymore.




I supported my Khaleesi to the very end, even when she went bat shit and burns Westeros to the ground. ♥
Come on now it's been almost two years. If you haven't seen it you're not going to. Spoiler I didn't hate it like everyone else did. I found peace in the Queen in the North at least. However if GRRM could get writing, that would be Wonderful!



I realized I no longer had a Friends Only page anymore. Fixing that with this post. **Disclaimer current friends need not worry this is only me adding this for others to see and comment on that are not granted access to my F.O. posts.
For awhile I was dilly-dallying with some Public Posts. I am no longer that Brave (2021 World Series Champions!!) besides my book reviews.

My name may seem familiar to you. We might've been friends on LJ at one point or another. There are a handful of people here I will never offer a second chance to that have harmed me mentally way too much- however, I can accept the fact that we've all grown in time and forgiveness and second chances are a part of that growth & learning. I am willing, if you are to take another chance at some friendships. I have been doing a lot of work on myself the past five years. The first four were all physical, now is the deep mental stuff, if you are game for it I might be too (unless you're on Arya's list.)

Comments

[fakeplant9]

Hey Melissa, not sure if you remember me or not. I'm Tara, we were friends a good I'd say 6 or 7 years ago or so, I had ended up changing journals after someone went a bit batshit crazy on me and I ended up not adding anyone that knew her to stay away. I have missed you and have been wanting to reconnect for awhile. At one point I had heard through some mutual friends you were in a car accident and I had wanted to reach out then but was scared to. In any case, I am down for a reconnection if you are? Let me know what you think. I'm trying to remember for you what my username was then but I honestly couldn't say, I don't remember. I respect that you've been working on yourself and I am happy you're still around.

[tigtogiba34.livejournal.com]

Wow that's a lot and sure I am always willing! Send me a pm about said batshit more than likely I understand-

[fakeplant9]

Sweet! Glad you're willing, I'll send you a PM soon & add you. :)

[tigtogiba34.livejournal.com]

Plus thanks so much and yeah it was a lot a total shattering of my life so to speak. I'm still recovering even though the bones have healed and so on my mind is having a really tough time. Trying to get a book out about my experiences but every time I go to edit I shut down. I am finally okay to speak about it though.

[fakeplant9]

I can only imagine, I know I haven't read about it but I'm glad you're healed. Must have been quite traumatic and I can definitely understand it's hard to talk about and process in minds. I hope one day you are able to get a book out about your experiences!