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tigtogiba34 ([personal profile] tigtogiba34) wrote2020-10-22 08:39 pm

My comments turn into mini-blogs

But this is 100% my intent:

[identity profile] wookiemonster.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. I do this, too. And yeah, it hurts when someone says, "Way to make it all about you." And I'm like, "Look, I just opened up to you about something personal in a good-faith show of solidarity, showed some vulnerability, and you...attacked me? What the hell?"

So, yeah, I get that...

[identity profile] ghost-light.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
I feel this to my bones

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, that's me, too.

[identity profile] howlin-wolf-66.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 10:09 am (UTC)(link)
I do this, too. It's just a way of showing empathy, I think. :-) *hugs*

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_profiterole_/ 2020-10-23 12:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Most people do this. I'm not sure why it's supposed to be wrong.

[identity profile] scream-queen.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 12:27 pm (UTC)(link)
To me that's pretty normal, unless someone is totally hijacking my story and making it all about them, I don't have any problem with it, and I do it too. It can be reassuring to know that the person you're talking to has had a similar experience and understands.

[identity profile] pondhopper.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. So many of us do that and for that precise reason...trying to show the person talking that we relate to what they're saying. I just hope people will understand when I do that, that it's not making your story about me.

[identity profile] lijahlover.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes I do that also.

[identity profile] zvezda.livejournal.com 2020-10-23 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I do exactly the same! I am glad someone is talking about this because I really do it out of care and goodness.

[identity profile] enchanted-jae.livejournal.com 2020-10-25 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
I can relate to that sentiment.

*nod nod*
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[personal profile] weebleswobble 2020-10-28 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
i do this too