Oy.

[tigtogiba34]

My Aunt announced my Step Mother finally got on facebook, can I make myself invisible so she can't add me? Not in the mood for my online activities to be reported to Dad nonstop although my Uncle Mike already does quite a bit I'm sure. Like it's rough enough to have to explain jokes most of my people already get to my mother...

Like I don't want to block her like my sister did me, but I really don't want her to friend me, so I reject it right? That would make family get togethers awkward haha they already are with my other piece of shit sister. Thankfully though most of the attention is on Ava and Emily.

In other non my family causes my mental breakdowns news, I filed my taxes today, over the next couple days I will need to amend 2018 and 2017 for the forms I got after I had filed. Not doing it tonight argh. So tired. Yesterday is catching up with me I believe. Then I spent a majority of the day out and about running errands- between my allergy shot and PT that was enough to do me in but I did most of the driving too.

Right now, on amazon picking out shoes.

Comments

[carbonpaper.livejournal.com]

You could just reject it, she wouldn’t know. I don’t know, I have family members who I can’t see at all on facebook. I don’t know if they blocked me or if they have their accounts set up some way.

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Which shoes do you want to buy? :>

[meathiel]

I also think that if you reject the friends request on FB they won't see it.

[howlin-wolf-66.livejournal.com]

Good luck with sorting out the tax stuff!

Sorry about the Facebook/family situation - that can be rough! I doubt my advice would be helpful to you, because I don't think we deal with things in the same way... but, I hope you can work out a decent compromise! :-) *hugs*

[pondhopper.livejournal.com]

If you block anybody they can't see your profile although they can see you commenting to others. So I guess the answer to total invisibility is no, you can't.

But if you reject a friend request she'll never know.

[stardust1161.livejournal.com]

You can block her.

[lyssa027.livejournal.com]

If you never acknowledge the request, they can never re-add you ;)

[scream-queen.livejournal.com]

Pretty sure you can block someone who isn't on your Friends List, so you wouldn't have to wait for her to send a request. Not sure if she would still see your comments to mutual friends though.

[enchanted-jae.livejournal.com]

If she sends a friend request, just decline it. You don't owe anyone any explanations.